Apparently this why I didn't get anything for Christmas. Or he thought I wasn't good enough. Anyway my day started late; I burnt the ham (I'll never buy a spirel again) the gravey was too saltly, so it ended in the garbage. At the dinner table I just wanted to scream. Tension; Lover never said one word to my Dad; even though Dad did speak first. So Thanks; My Christmas was ruined. No good memories of this Christmas for my old age. My back and my lungs hurt terribly and now the silent treatment can work both ways!!